Toddler Tips

As a mom I learn something new everyday about my children and about myself. It's safe to say that there's a steep learning curve when it comes to parenting, no? If being a Mama (and a wife!) doesn't build character--I don't know what does!

There are a few tips I've picked up thus far, however, that have helped me when communicating/training my children. Of course, I don't do these 100% of the time but I try.

 

~ I use the phrase, "Let's try that again," as much as I can with my 3 yr old. I picked this up from Jamie at Steady Mom. It works really well. This teaches her not only what was wrong, but also what the correct response is and allows her to practice it. And I usually don't have to inflict a harsher punishment. It's a Win-Win. :)

~ I use timers for letting Gillian know when quiet time is over, when she is done eating (Anyone else have a toddler who takes HOURS to eat 4 raisins and a piece of cheese?!) and *will start using it* for picking up toys. I haven't been too diligent about making them pick up lately.

 

~ If your child needs to tell you something while you're talking, have them put their hand on your arm and wait until you acknowledge them. I think this came from the book Don't Make Me Count to Three by Ginger Plowman. (someone correct me if I'm wrong. :) I actually don't do this, I just think it's a great idea! We've been teaching Gillian to say "Excuse me," when she needs to say something, but this doesn't work that great because she just says it OVER and OVER until she's acknowledged.

~ When I get angry, instead of yelling, I try to speak softer and softer. I read this in the Duggar's first book, The Duggars: 20 and Counting!I don't do this enough.

So those are a few things that I try to do when training my toddlers. :) You have any tips to share? Leave them in the comments!